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Written by Paul B. at 28 Oct 2002 11:33:10: Try the alternative view on the problem then.
As an answer to: Re: Alternative views on the problem written by Mike at 28 Oct 2002 09:07:25:
> I have been with girls who are lubricated less and nothing has happened with regards to the frenulum.
Then you are telling me that there is something you are doing that is resulting in the extra strain and causing this to tear.
> It seems to happen mostly when I deeply penetrate. It hurts a lot too, but the moment gets the better of me - like a wounded solider in battle who feels no pain!
Most certainly. Evidently this particular young lady evokes this particular desire.
> I have tried abstinance. A few months of head only (cool gf, huh)? It doesnt want to repair!
Well then, perhaps you should try my alternate suggestion - I'm sure you would be no worse off:
>> It may be better if the pain is not a great concern (I suspect it isn't!) to simply find some pads to use after sex to deal with any spotting (again, just like the ladies do), and don't be put off. In general, the body will heal where and as it needs to - the mouth is an excellent example as you should already know.