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AJ, you are bound up in unwarranted fears

Written by Jim at 17 Dec 2002 21:08:58:

As an answer to: Arguing... written by AJ at 17 Dec 2002 19:15:47:

Your phobias and your obsesssions with them have prevented you from seeing reality.

You have NEVER offered any explanation for your fear in using devices to augment stretching, a procedure which is used in medicine quite frequently. What harm could possibly come from using a dowel or a film canister under the foreskin? Is it because you know there is no harm, and that the use of such a device would work and solve the problem?

You also have nevered offered a reasonable explanation for keeping private matters of a teen from his parents. Do you think that all teen boys are big babies who can't maintain their own bodies? Do you not believe that teen boys have a right to solve their private matters without the intervention or opinion of someone who might wish to mutilate their genitals instead of using non-invasive solutions?

You have failed to recognize that self-help solutions and home-made devices are currently being used throughout the world by men who were deprived of their foreskins by someone other than themselves, men who would have decided to keep their foreskins, men who are ingenious enough to think through processes such as skin expansion and engineering in order to design and create devices which do expand their skin without damage to their bodies. Did you know there are more than 20,000 such men in the world, all of whom would tell you that you are nuts to think harm would come to anyone with good common sense who follows explicit directions on how to construct the devices and use them safely? what is your fear in facing these 20,000 facts?

Do you really want us to believe that all physicians are objective in their suggestions of treatment? Are you not aware that they make their livings by administering treatments and the most profitable treatments are those which involve the cutting of body parts? Are you not aware that western medicine is not the only type of medicine practiced in the world? Did you know that the practice of western medicine is quite young compared to other types of medical practices around the world? Do you know that that humans have survived in spite of the absence of western medical practice throughout astonishingly overwhelming majority of years of history.

AJ, did you know little girls in Africa put foreign devices into slits cut into their lips? Did you know that these devices stretch their lips into plate-like appendages? Did you know that their tribal doctors approve of such devices? Did you know that their parents approve of such practice?

Fetish? Probably. Obsession? Definitely. You are obsessed with the mutilation that you had done upon yourself. It totally consumes your life, such that you must tell the world all about it in great morbid detail. It has become bigger than life itself, such that you wish every other male in the world to have the experience of discovering body modification in the same manner that you did, by visiting his own physician who will likely prescribe the same treatment. You are also obsessed with me, having searched far and wide through the archives of these pages and those of fathermag to dig up what you consider dirt to smear me with. Your obsession and its manifestation of smearing the dirt has spread even to areas I where I don't contribute, namely your own little world of perverted discourse you call a forum. Do you really think people there care about me? Is that what you think? AJ, you are obsessed with trying to destroy my work because it doesn't agree with your bizarre plan.

Degenerative disease? What in hell are you talking about now? Tight foreskins? Short frenulums? Misdiagnosed health situations? Have you gone completely mad? Are you suggesting that foreskins are birth defects? Your statement begs explanation.

Jim is not a company. Jim is a single person who believes that all boys have a God-given right to mature with intact bodies. Jim believes that the body has remarkable functions and capabilities that should be given the opportunity to work before radical unreversible procedures are administered. Do you not agree with that? Perhaps you could explain why not?

AJ, in your last paragraph you pretty well summed up your personal problem. It's called phobia. "I'm afraid..........." There is a major problem. You need to discover what that fear is all about. If you really fear what I have suggested to people herein, why are you fearing it? Have you taken the time to visit the sites listed as references? You seem to have a great deal of confidence in western medicine, but you fail to recognize that people such a Beauge are practicing physicians also. So is Fleiss, and so are all of the doctors in DOC. Are you suggesting that they are to be mistrusted and only those who believe as you do are to be trusted?

AJ, I don't owe you any explanation for anything, nor does PaulB. The guys who have used our suggestions have found success as evidenced by the record. It is you who is the latecomer here, the one who has challenged our work. Therefore the burden of proof is upon your shoulders, not ours. In addition to the evidence of grateful guys' testimonies, we have also offered documented evidence which backs up our claims. You know what your real problem is? You can't find documented evidence that refutes our work, so your phobias have caused you to attack us personally. What if PaulB were not a real doctor? What if I am? Does it really matter if the guys who need help are getting the results from our suggestions? Have you looked back and seen that there have been no losers?

AJ, it's time to take a big look into that mirror and face what it is you are fearing. You remind me of the southern plantation owners who didn't want to recognize that Lincoln was right. While your acceptance of a practice which is harmful may be socially acceptable, it is damaging nonetheless. Some of us are willing to stick our necks out to right the wrong. That's why PaulB and I spend our time here. We may not yet be socially acceptable in your eyes, but ultimately we are right, just as Lincoln was right. Take some time to investigate our claims. Try to understand that others may not wish to have parts of their bodies amputated just because that's the way it's always been. Try to understand that babies are people and not chattel of their parents who may have them carved up at whim. If you factually undertake these suggestions and still have problems accepting me and PaulB, AJ, you need to get some help. You have made mountains out of non-existant molehills. Get those phobias solved.


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