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Jealousy

Written by Rood at 10 Feb 2003 21:04:01:

As an answer to: Re: What are you planning for your future? written by AlfredH at 10 Feb 2003 16:32:02:

>>>You're confusing the issue in failing to state that you did not stretch the frenulum first.>>
>In preaching your gospel of stretching you create much false hope. I really do blame you for that. After several years of trying and not achieving enough results I chose another way. Why are you acting like a freak about the stretching-subject? Are you jealous perhaps? Or only a pitiful stretching fanatic like some of the anti-circs?
>PS: I like my foreskin!


Alfred H...Yes, I'm somewhat jealous. Having suffered the consequences of being sliced by knives, I cannot imagine anyone deliberately choosing again to have someone cut into my body or advocating that someone else chose that radical step. Those of us who are victims will do almost anything to prevent others from suffering our fate. We would love to have a frenulum with which to contemplate, tight or not. To have an unretractable foreskin would be pure heaven.

To read your posts with their blase attitude and advocacy of cutting as a solution to perceived problems fills me with a certain unease. I suspect your fifteen years (or is it 'several' years) of stretching without success to be somewhat overstated. Skin does 'stretch'. A tight frenum can be lengthened. A foreskin can be restored. There is a certain amount of impatient disregard for one's bodily integrity in the rush to cut oneself.

Those whose bodies are intact should be jealous of the gift. Much better to husband one's resources and to increase their usefulness by careful attention than to slice away with contempt, as though one's uniqueness weren't important.
I appreciate your decision, but you should be careful in advocating impatience as a solution. Better to advocate men be appeciative and jealous, too, of their bodies.


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