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Keeps Missing

Written by Paul B. at 11 Mar 2003 12:08:23:

As an answer to: Re: Missed it entirely. written by Ralesk at 11 Mar 2003 08:28:45:

> To the TU of Budapest, back in 2000: I did not study it for a full year and naturally I have I forgotten almost everything. Hopefully it will "come back" to me!

Sounds as if you are doing fine, Ralesk!

>> What disturbs me is the presumptuous attitude of Paul B. to the whole discussion. He thinks repeating the example I mentioned yet again will make it better.

Well, you chose to trivialise it - and you did not appear to understand it. I can't make it much clearer - nor can you it seems.

>> He's even commenting on whether I need to remove my warts or not!

Mmmm. Seems you brought it up!

> Now he even wants to even know where they are! I was saying that only my girlfriend is going to see them, no-one else, but that they make me uncomfortable enough. I don't accept that someone else can deny my own rights. Everyone may make corrections, as long as you do not impede someone else

> I do understand you. But what I figure concerning Paul B's question about the personal matters, which that he was just curious.

And why not?

> And I repeat, he, as I, thinks that if you are not doing something to improve yourself, OK, maybe you have your reasons --- but if that is the case, people are in for a few shocks or isn't quite normal.

Essentially.

> But, it must be said that if something is not right (those side adhesions have nothing to do with the concrete fraenulum) and you go inappropriately around the forum advertising frenuloplasty, then what do we have? OK, you are happy. Lucky you!. You have already told us that. I think we already agreed that you are. But we think each individual has their own choices and preferences ??force others to.

That's the point.

>> These discussions seriously disturb the value of this sort of forum. Something more of a subtle position reaches much more. The hate-letters from both sides are just infantile. Each tries to catch the other with word-play, whereas if properly run, information would be supply to the persons who sought same. There are youths who have a serious problem has, but walk away from here because of all the nonsense posted. Some advice has definite value, but a more balanced attitude could do away with all the anger. The smart-ass propositions seem to infect everything.

It's fascinating how you (Harmen) see yourself as "normal" and a model advisor for troubled youth. It's a common cover for oddballs to make themselves sound "reasonable", and a dangerous snare. When faced with the absurd, it is not always right (for us) to be "calm and equitable".

Frankly, we see you as a pervert - albeit a harmless one in general, except where you try to gain acolytes to your fetish. So it remains - we do want to help fellows with problems, you want to make their problems into even more convoluted problems. No, we won't accept you as legitimate.


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