[ ARC forum 2 ]
Written by Jim at 26 Mar 2003 23:36:58: Re: Some advice needed
As an answer to: Some advice needed written by Craig at 26 Mar 2003 20:02:39:
Thanks for taking time to write us. You have quite a bit to address, so let's try to cover the bases.
First of all, you state that you are gay, so is the issue of fathering something you wish to pursue? If so, we can suggest some possibilities on that later. You've also stated that both you and your partner are cool with your situations, so I'd have to agree with AJ on that one. Why do anything? Cleanliness is really not an issue for anything which needs to come out will. Babies can't retract and they never suffer from that fact.
No need to listen to the doctor for he's just after a profitable tidbit. If you really want to see what's inside, we can help you with some simple exercises that will stretch the opening over time, allowing full retraction, provided that there are no adhesions present. Does the skin seel mobile over whatever is inside? That would be your clue.
Yes, there is one known physician here who may be able to shed some light on your subject. May is the key word here, for your condition may be quite rare.