[ ARC forum 2 ]
It's not the problem
As an answer to: unsure of circumcision written by blag at 24 Apr 2003 23:42:54:
> but since adulthood i have been able to pull it back when soft, but it hurts when i try it when its erect.
Then you have a situation which will be remedied with some persistence. Your thinking is too much "all or nothing" - you are impatient - and not surprising given your youth.
> My glans is so sensitive, its not pleasurable when someone else masturbates me, in fact it usually hurts,
And why would you expect it automatically to be pleasurable, without the practice? Are you referring to a girl or a guy? Girls are notoriously incapable of stroking ("masturbating", though the term more strictly means doing it yourself) guys and tend to either do it too hard and hurt, or too soft, or too slow, and it becomes frustrating. Other guys usually have a better idea, but there is still the matter of personal preferences and habits.
It requires practice and time. Patience, patience, patience!
> i use my own techniques.
Everybody does - guys and girls. Tell me, how experienced are you at making your girl "come"? Perhaps you should be spending more time on that than worrying about a foreskin that doesn't work quite right? I'm deadly serious here - this is what is going to matter in a relationship, and it is the relationship that matters.
> i have tried to have sex but i lose my erection shortly after penetration.
Why? Because you are nervous or what? No point blaming that on a tight foreskin. You are literally trying too hard.
> i am about to see a specialist because i think i might need a circumcision, as my problems seem to stem from my foreskin etc.
Well, you can believe me or not, and may suffer the consequences, but you do not need a circumcision, either "partial" (they only remove the most sensitive part of the foreskin) or whatever, you certainly do not need to see a "specialist" and your foreskin is only a minor part of your problems.
> I have tried stretching but it hurts too much. Am i doing the right thing?
Obviously not, if it hurts "too much". You need to study a lot on the matter. Read back here (including the archive), look for the serious stuff (I could suggest - look for my name on posts, but I'm not always serious and do like to tease those that richly deserve it. 
And you can try looking at Jim's forum which is "cleaner" - the non-business parts tend to be filtered out.
Tell you the deal. You explain yourself in more detail, and we can look at the finer points.