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Written by Ralesk at 10 Jun 2003 02:49:40: Re: The Practicalities ...
As an answer to: Re: The Practicalities ... written by Paul B. at 09 Jun 2003 01:54:01:
>> Most women like shagging and would be disappointed if they have a bloke who can't. That's the most common model.
... and a relationship shouldn't be about shagging, anyway.
>> anyway sooner or later the question of comfortable happy shag or workarounds will be necessary.
>And if you get going, you'll get there.aye.
>> Have managed frequency and maintenance in the morning especially
>If you can't get one in the morning, you really have a trouble.*laughs*
>Naturally, a woman's vagina really is (with due apologies to Ralesk here,) by way of natural design, the object by which the penis is best stimulated (it has small ridges or "rugae" lining it, the better developed as it is more used, or so my tutors claimed!), and the smooth transfer from the concealment of a foreskin to an invitingly wet vagina is, let me assure you, not going to be painful.
Oh gods, I'm missing out *pouts* :P
But yes... And if anything, it is necessary to be "prepared" --- it is the best when both participiants have become wet. If anything, the only practice of (intact) gays I can relate to this is the so-called docking, when one enters the other's foreskin. That's of course only possible if the receiving end has it loose enough, but here again it is the best, when both are "wet", that is, have produced enough pre-cum.
My partner did have a tight foreskin, and an obviously more sensitive glans than those who haven't had phimosis by his age. He experienced pain when something dry touched his glans. there wasn't any problem with him inside my foreskin, though.>Most certainly, work on the stretching. Your lack of conviction on these matters suggests that you have not yet tried the lubricant for touching your glans. If it is that sensitive (and I have no doubt it is), then you may certainly want to use the lubricant for the preferred exercise of finger-tips inside the opening and pulling outward. If that (discomfort) is preventing you from the exercise, then for goodness sake, go get the lubricant and get started now!
I agree.
>> Because of phimosis, I have less experience of women than normal men
>Pardon, but I don't believe that. I'll say no more.Point. It's not a "because"-relation. It's more like an "and".
>> But I don't believe the problem is entirely dryness - it feels like the skin is raw
>And why would it be?cogwheels cogwheels
because it was rubbed w/o lubrication and it is not prepared for such treatment?