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Re: Hello ! -- I need your help!! please tell me

Written by Dimiter at 14 Jul 2003 21:02:55:

As an answer to: Re: Hello ! -- I need your help!! please tell me written by Ralesk at 14 Jul 2003 20:32:47:

First of all thanks for the quick and detailed answer! :))

>>I can't really diagnose myself correctly.I'm 18.. I have phimosis since i'm born i guess.. The case is that in a certain phase of masturbation, the skin softens, and if i pull hard enough i can stretch it all just behind the head of my penis... the problem is that it won't go lower... it hurts much if i try to push more... it's just like too tight to go downwards more that just below the head..
>That sounds like a light case of tight foreskin. I have a question: was it always like that, or do you recall it being different when you were younger (more tight, less tight, whichever?). Hmm, another question could be, how far does it go when you're not erect?

::: To your first question.. I can't really recall anything about it. i was just used to it - thought it normal...but i think it was worse.. no i can;t tell for sure.. it was some time ago during masturbation when i tried to pull as long as i can... but it's quite different.. it depends on the softness of the skin i guess. sometimes i can do much with small effort other times i must pull really hard..

:::: When i'm not erect, well.. you've seen a condom .. you know the top of it? it has some kind of peak.. so when i'm normal - the skin forms this peak..
i hope you can understand me (my english sux )

>>Can you please help me and suggest me something to treat this :( ?
>Yes. This image shows exactly what and how you should do. If you exert tension on your foreskin, it's going to react with growing. Not fast, don't expect it to be rapid. It'll take a couple of weeks. Some people here (a certain Jake Booth for example) have gone from zero retractability to being able to fit 4 fingers in the foreskin, in two months or so. You already have a good headstart, as you can retract your foreskin, albeit with discomfort.

- oh my.. so this is a stretching exercise? so i should pull the skin in different directions as shown in the pic? or i should pull to a certain level and keep that for some minutes?.. and how ?

>Try to do the stretching exercises regularly (at least once each day, keeping the foreskin pulled by your fingers for a couple of minutes altogether), for some weeks. Make sure nothing hurts but there is tension. Every person has to fine-tune this for themselves. You're fine as long as you're patient and don't expect rapid changes and don't pull on your foreskin too hard.
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>R,

well.. i've some people say that if you pull it fast and sudden it will tear and a little blood will flow.. but then everything is gonna be ok ? i'm afraid however to do that .. ;>


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