AMERICAN FRENULUM
I just came across your site. I have experienced much of what you
write about. I am looking forward to reading more. I thought I was
the only one with some of these issues. I am at work right now, so
I will have to look into this further. Thanks
I am a 37 year old male with foreskin. I grew up in Minnesota and
all other boys areound me were circumcised. Some of the things you
write about I experience alone. I had no idea others had the same experiences.
I thought I would write some more. Like I said, I am uncircumcised
and always felt different. I never really knew why I looked different
until I was about 11 years old. I didn't know that I could pull my
foreskin back until about that time. I thought I was born without a
head on my penis. At a doctor visit the doctor exposed my glans for
the first time.
The head of my penis has always been hard to touch, at first air
even seemed to almost hurt. I have a short frenulum so when I am erect,
the glans pull back at an angle.
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There's a hell of a lot of us who just didn't know we had a glans,
or didn't realise that it could be exposed. So a doctor exposed your
glans ... ouch ...
> I have a short frenulum so when I am erect, the glans pull
> back at an angle.
actually this only happens when you retract the foreskin otherwise
the effect is that the foreskin is pulled forward ... penetration would
be a little difficult .... relatively simple to get the frenulum fixed
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When I am erect, the skin only pulls back to just behind the glans,
and if I am really hard, the glans pull back at an angle. Do you know
what I mean? I also have a really pinkish purplish head. the slit has
kind of reddish lips on it. I have noticed circumcised men don't have
either. I think the head shape is different also, it is more tapered
and slender, kind of pointed. I wasn't cut because I was sick when
i was born.
My skin seems to be pretty thick also. I am not a very big person
either, only I bet about 5.5 inches or 6 inches maybe. Soft I get really
small, 2.5 inches. The head shape seems to be really more like an circular
head than a mushroom head, there is not really a ridge that flares
out.
I hope I can get some time to read more. I am very busy right now.
I am interested in your thoughts. What percentage of men in England
are circumcised?
I do have a kink when erect. The glans actually seem to pull back
though. I went into the site again. I would like to connect with others
with similare experiences. Do you know how I can do that? I really
believe that not understanding why my penis was so different affected
my own beliefs as what it is to be a man. Does that make sense? I think
it really affected me.
Thanks, let me know
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> I wasn't cut because I was sick when i was born.
Some would consider you lucky ...
>The head shape seems to be really more like an circular head than
a
> mushroom head, there is not really a ridge that flares out.
My coronal ridge started expanding within a month of the operation,
> I do have a kink when erect.
Are you sure, without pulling back on the foreskin or touching it
in any way ... ? ... I wonder to what extent the frenulum is actually
pulling the glans downwards, and if after an operation, this downward
pull is at all corrected - I suspect the glans has formed with a kink
due to the short frenulum ... i.e. after an op. there would be almost
no change, ... have you got a camera? unfortunately I haven't so I
was unable to take pics before and after the operation ...
> I really
> believe that not understanding why my penis was so different affected
my own
> beliefs as what it is to be a man. Does that make sense?
This is what my site is all about, my condition affected my masturbation
and my relationship with myself, and with others, and thus ultimately
influenced a good part of my life ...
I'm not resentfully complaining, it is one of life's experiences,
but I do want to put this experience to good use .. not just waste
it and forget it all ...
Robin
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