PAIN DIFFICULTY and INEVITABLY FEAR
Forum letter 760
help! tight foreskin
Written by annoyedveryimbarrest at 01 Nov 2000 00:39:44:
i am an 22yr old male.
i have a problem with my foreskin that i hope someone can help me
with at the end of my foreskin it is very tight and the opening isnt
really big enough for the head of my penis to go through so i can retract
I can retract my foreskin so it is behind the head of my penis,
but it takes a lot of effort to force it behind there.
Also if i happen to get an erection when my foreskin is behind the
head of my penis it is painful and like the head of my penis is being
if i try to uriniate when it is in this state it hurts and not much
urine will come out.
Sometimes it has taken me several hrs and much pain to get my foreskin
back to its normal position after this, and if i have tried to urinate,
when it finally goes back to its normal position urine comes out, i
guess cause the pressure is released.
has anyone got a solution to this problem?
i am very scared of going to the doctor and i do not want to be
I dont know if this will cause problems when having intercourse,
because i am a virgin.
i can masturbate ok though
I feel here we see a fear of the unknown, as the initiate hesitates
for months and years wondering whether the horrendous effects of his
foreskin complex may possibly have an effect on intercourse,
Most of the answers are summarised on the welcome page --- check
out phimosis and paraphimosis (and ways to control it), - yes I know
theres a bit to read and understand and really the doctors should
have taken care of it years ago, but then sigh - this is all part
of being a man in the modern world ... (education/awareness is the
best cure for ignorance) .. and if you learn a bit about betamethsone
.. and then if you ask the doctor for some - he will probably thank
you for making his days work easier