If he does not sublimate his sexual drive, it leaves him with something
impossible to prove or fulfil. He compensates his reality with fantasy
opening the door to further disillusion and a life chasing beautiful
unreality, (with wishes which he subsequently attempts to fulfil in
his real relationships).
It is worth considering that in specific cases where foreskin
conditions were combined with a particularly unstable and disturbing
upbringing they could easily add another ingredient to the irrational
frustration which leads to specific sexual crimes, this particularly
concerns the frequent profile of rape without penetration, but also
those forms of pedophile behaviour which do not involve direct sexual
Sexual offenders should undoubtedly be carefully and compassionately
monitored for foreskin difficulties, however I suspect that more commonly
sufferers end up in a domina`s dungeon, rather than the State prison.
With time, when the inadequacy in intimate relationships reflects
socially, this will add another ingredient to the severity of any social
problem, with consequences which are recognised among the socially
isolated, e.g. homelessness, drug addiction, suicide.
(For clarification: I am obviously not arguing that
the entire psychology and character development of a youth has evolved
exclusively based on one anatomical problem. As with any other disturbing
influence the effects will be relative to and influenced by all the
other experiences in life. It would not be the only influence; - but
in an integrated personality an unrecognised foreskin condition would
have an influence on everything else, magnifying influences of a similar
nature and undermining potentially healthy tendencies. It would combine
as contributing factor in any more complex disturbance.)
Foreskin conditions hinder experiment, expression and satisfaction
in the physical expression of love. Love making is not as physically
easy or natural as it could be, it is inhibited, therefore the man
might start making love later, more seldomly, or possibly not at all.
However, it is not only the pure feelings of love which are undermined,
for the unsaintly among us, desire is a stronger force which
can be extremely destructive when frustrated. We are discussing a man
who`s sexuality is disoriented at a very elementary level and ultimately
everything sexual is a little distorted, everything from using
condoms to the Oedipus complex.